Do you like the new Autumn colours for my blog? Maybe still needs a bit more work! I am enjoying the changing season whilst hoping for more sunny days! It is a time for snuggling under quilts in the evenings and last night I got out the candles. Our twinkling lights need to go back up and we have yet to have a fire. 

This busy week has made me reflect on my new normal which is still changing. I have wondered often whether moving on would mean I would no longer think about what has happened. I have decided that certainly for now it is still very much part of my thinking and my 'being'. I am still aware so often of what I can't do and of course what I can do now. It has so shaped who I am as a person and also shaped our family. Mostly in a good way now. I do allow myself small glimpses of the future but mainly I live in today and appreciate all I have right here right now. I think this is a good way to be - grateful for today and only concerned for the cares of today. Tomorrow will come soon enough! 

Today - a sorting day hoping to finish the loft boxes and get Paul's room sorted. We started it before the summer holidays and it is still a mess! Maybe a bit of gardening too. Beef casserole in the slow-cooker with dumplings for tea - yummy! 

Hope you all have lovely weekend plans!